Do We Care?

By Dr Wong Wee Nam

23 Feb 2009

Three recent issues cause me great discomfort. The first is the topic of euthanasia, the second is the sale of organs and the third is the suggestion of sending our elderly to a neighbouring country to save costs.

The issues give me discomfort because they would have a great impact on society should such ideas form the basis of healthcare policies.

To me the formulation of policies must not just be based on cold and hard financial mathematics. There must also be a generous dose of compassion, idealism and love. A policy must come out from a good head as well as a big heart. This is more so when the policy concerns health, the poor and the elderly. In this area, policy-makers must not only be competent and intellectually skilled, they must also be able to love and show compassion. They cannot have too big a head and too small a heart.

In Singapore, sad to say, the measure of success has been money and material possessions. As a result, our values, behaviour and attitudes have been tempered by this yardstick of success. Because of this obsession, people complain about lack of fulfillment from work. At the same time they feel passive, hopeless, helpless, apathetic and display a lack of concern for their country and fellowmen. KIASU is not just a joke. It is a symptom of our distorted goals.

In a materialistic society, there is more reason why we should make sure that there is more compassion for the sick, the poor, the dying and the elderly in our policies. This is to ensure that there will be compassion to balance the materialism in order to keep our society whole.


Euthanasia is a very complex issue. There is no clear answer to this moral dilemma. Every dying patient has a right to live to his last breath and everyone has a right to refuse useless life-prolonging treatment. But that does not mean we should consider legalising euthanasia. Once we do that the momentum generated by the call for the right to die may eventually become a demand for the duty to die.

Economically, active euthanasia is an attractive proposition. You relieve suffering and you save costs. However, active euthanasia is not compassionate killing. It is actually nothing more than a perverse way of managing suffering. We are merely trying to solve the problem of suffering by knocking out the sufferer.

It is also just a way of reducing demands on our compassion. Once you kill the dying sick, there is no longer the need for the living to provide any further compassion.

The danger of active euthanasia is that once we accept killing, it just becomes a little easier the second time, and each time thereafter, until it becomes routine and mechanical, totally devoid of feeling.

We will then start using pain, disability and suffering to assess the worth of a human life and as reasons for the doctor to end his patient’s life.

Once this becomes a routine, decisions may be made, not in the patients’ interest, but because physicians, families and staff become tired, demoralised and discouraged with the care of such patients.

In such circumstances, how are we to safeguard against tendencies to take the easy way out and the possibility of subtle coercion to put pressure on the patient to die?

Allowing active euthanasia will give the doctor the taint of an executioner. It will relieve the community of its obligation to provide good care.

If our doctors start to be pre-occupied with whether a case should be killed or not, then they have stopped doctoring. Instead of being a dispenser of care our doctor will become a dispenser of death.

With active euthanasia, human lives can only become a commodity to be disposed off when they become too expensive to maintain.

The real danger of euthanasia is that it is the thin edge of a wedge towards a society in which the aged, the handicapped, the mentally deficient and the chronic sick will be faced with a duty to die so that they will not be a burden to society.

What then is the challenge for the healthcare system? The challenge is certainly not to decide whether to make euthanasia legally and morally permissible and debating whether euthanasia is right or wrong. The more important question is how we can make euthanasia unnecessary.

Dying used to be a human occasion, almost a public ceremony, and not something completely removed from view or from ordinary experience. It had the virtue of not isolating the dying person, treating death as a significant part of life and of presenting the living with examples of how to die with dignity.

Euthanasia seems to allow a merciful end to suffering and dying, but it would increasingly isolate the rest of us from death’s significance to life. It will make us abandon the aged and the dying. It will make us poorer as human beings.

Sale of Human Organs

Allowing the sale of human organs is also a bad idea. It is bad both for the donor as well as the poor who are waiting for a transplant. For the poor recipients they would have to wait for a free kidney, which naturally would be in short supply once such things are marketable. As for the wealthy, they would be able to jump queue, consigning a more deserving but poor recipient to a longer wait.

As for the donors, it is also a fact that the poorer you are the more likely you are to become sick. As it is the poor who are likely to sell their kidneys, their future health would be something of a concern.

Sending the Elderly to a Foreign Country

Finally, the suggestion that our elderly be sent to a cheaper neighbouring country if families want to save costs should really be an unmentionable suggestion. Such an idea, if taken seriously, would have a destructive impact on the quality of a caring society.

Every aspect of life cannot be turned into a marketable commodity. Every social service cannot simply follow the principle of maximum production for maximum profit. There will be a problem of the growing number of elderly who would need nursing care in future. It is the duty of the government to use their creative minds to come up with a decent solution for this elderly brigade who has given their blood and sweat to build this country. There are a few areas that the government cannot shirk its responsibility and this is one area. If we want to build a compassionate and cohesive society, the government must take the lead to show that it cares.

What kind of society would we be creating if people are treated like parts of a replaceable machine or disposable crockery in a hawker centre? We must have a society where we can develop in people a sense of public service and of caring about people. The opposite of this would be self-love, power-lust, opportunism and other destructive passions.

It is not good to have a wealthy society that is suffering from emotional poverty. It is not good for our people to have no feeling of love and compassion except the passion for power and money. It is not good for the country when people are not supposed to think for themselves or feel for others, and are only educated to fit into the economic system.

A capitalistic society without compassion may improve the general standard of living but the cost is the emptiness in the citizens’ lives. We may all conform, but we will lack the conviction to our endeavors and may even lose our love for our country. Our work attitude would be to get as much out of the company as we can without feeling any loyalty and we would also try to get as much out of society as we can treating our country very much like the way we treat our company.

Health is not a Market Problem

The health of a person, particularly the health of the poor, elderly and the dying is not simply a market problem that can be solved by the free market. If our standard of value for everything is money, then everything will become a commodity to be bought and sold. This means that the rich will have access to higher-valued products and the very poor will not. Inevitably every person himself will have a price tag and also a social pigeon-hole that fits the price-tag. Every person will become a commodity, not a man but an economic abstraction. His relationship with other men is governed by the price tag that he wears.

There must be a balance between markets and community values and freedom and responsibility. Life is not just a big supermarket. If we do not have traditional values and a sense of community at the same time, the cultural wasteland that is created will make us indifferent to social responsibilities.

We must not allow the obsession with money and competition, without any compassion, to turn our country into a marketplace where all of us are reduced to passive consumers, isolated from each other, caring only for ourselves and our families and building a wall against our neighbours.

There is nothing welfaristic about dealing with social problems particularly when they are the result of cold and clinical policies.

Why We Need Care and Compassion

The accelerating pace of change has deprived the old of a role to play. Their traditional role as elders has been eroded by the information age and their traditional wisdom is now regarded as worthless. Respect from the young has been replaced by indifference or ridicule. Family responsibility and neighbourly concern have receded, giving way to isolation and institutionalization. We must find a new role for the old. What the community cannot offer, the state should provide.

A community needs its aged and dependent, its sick and its dying, because they show us the virtues of humility, courage, and patience — just as much as the community needs the virtues of justice and love shown by doctors, nurses and families whose existence can only depend on the presence of the aged, sick and dying.

Health care policies must, therefore, be brimming with compassion. Without it, lives can only become a commodity to be disposed off when it becomes too expensive to maintain. This may sow the seeds of unacceptable social consequences where society may undervalue lives which include the terminally ill, the senile, the permanently unconscious, the retarded, the incurable, the chronic sick and even the aged.

Are we one people? Are we one country?

10 comments on Do We Care?

  1. Hi E Jay,

    This is an excellent article ! May I seek your and Dr Wong’s permission to republish it in full on with a link to your blog ?

    Zhi Yuan

  2. “Health is not a Market Problem”

    Agree. I’d add too that many times Free Market is tossed around and selectively applied to suit policy makers’ agenda. It then becomes a market failure because the market only atttach a value to the tangibles, and asume no value or refuse to attach value to the intangibles e.g. compassion, loyalty, the environment, etc.

  3. We need more people like Dr. Wong Wee Nam to speak up for Singapore. This process of educating and waking up Singaporeans to the danger and detriment of government policies. The politcal apathy of many Singaporeans especially the younger generations who sadly due to years of PAP intimidation, have chosen to “play safe” and hence stay away from anything political, leaving the future of the country to a team of “know-all” elites to play God, while working like mad dogs to accumulate money thinking that with money all problems can be solved. This explains why every government policies are “market-driven” based because PAP has successfuuly inculcated a generation of Singaporeans who think “money” and “market supply and demand” as a fact of life. Compassion, gratitude, generosity, love, filial piety and fellowship are non-economic values and only remain slogans in Singapore society.

  4. Singapore Policies Makers are out of touch !

    Look at so many different voices arise recently.

    Isn’t it time now for reflection ?

  5. We hv let the govt become a big financial machinary that is only interested in income, more revenue, etc
    It earns more and more, without ever needing to spend on Sporeans or their future.

    Take the revenue from the casinos – yes, we had made the decision to do this, and where are the millions earned from these going to?
    TO the consolidated funds, which is not part of the annual budget process.

    Its the same with much of other revenue: revenue fron COE, ERP, etc are all channelled to the CONFUNDs with no accounting to the public whatsoever!!

    Thus the govt does not need to ponder on where to spend money, like more on education, more universities, or creating jobs for elderlies.

    The opposition members of parliament should hold the govt accountable for this.

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